Get out of your own way by doing this ONE thing.

I’m about to ask you to do something that so simple and transformational that will allow you to get out of your own way. Warning, it may sound daunting, but once you understand why it is so important - you will begin to see massive shifts in your life.

It’s so easy for us to blame everything that goes wrong in our life on outside factors - other people, your boss, the moon, work, the weather etc etc. But, all we are really doing is making up excuses. Dishing off the blame and responsibility to everyone else but ourselves.

What if you took FULL responsibility for everything in your life? Sound scary? Well, reality check: you are responsible for every single thing in your life. You + the universe are co-creators. Your thoughts, beliefs and actions have brought you here and taken you through all your experiences - the good AND the bad.

You might be thinking to yourself “Well no. This person did this, this and this”. You might be feeling a bit frustrated. You might be feeling a bit confused. You might be wondering how you could have possibly made some things to happen to you?! (FYI, you may not have consciously done it)

Just pause and hear me out.

Our minds are always serving us. Any thought we think, our mind’s job is to bring physical evidence of that into our reality. Now, the difference between what you want and don’t want? That doesn’t matter to your mind. Your mind just provides you whatever you focus on. Realizing this amazing power, you can now be intentional moving forward. But, that requires you to first take responsibility.

If you can get comfortable with owning up to your entire life experience, you will be in full control of your future. Who cares if you have had experiences that you didn’t like? Think about what they have taught you. Realize that you’re better off learning and experiencing those things in the past, and now with this new awareness, you can shift your beliefs so it does not happen again.

Instead of taking the easy way out and giving away your power to everyone else, start honoring your power. Be amazed at the fact that you have the ability to create your own reality. You’ve been doing it all this time. So now, do it on purpose. It’s time for you to start living intentionally and creating what you actually want.

The moment you can take full responsibility for your life, nothing can stop you. We don’t realize that we are in our own way until we start owning up to every single thing that’s happened to us. You may not have consciously created certain experiences. Those may have been subconsciously or unconsciously created. Good news, those can be easily rewired through your affirmations! If you need help, work with me and we will get those handled stat!

So, from this point forward, I invite you to get out of your own way. Start taking responsibility for your life: past, present and future. Start honoring your power. Stop giving away your magic. This life is yours, and only yours! You have everything you need, right here and right now, to live out every dream you have had. Ready? Set. Go!

Xoxo, Payal